Everybody isn't fit to be your co-star. Many men & women have the physical attributes for the part in the role, the trailer looks good as hell but there is no happy ending.
How many men, "ballers" have gone broke because all their money went into the divorce of a woman they only married because of looks? How many women have become emotionally broken and physically battered by the men they only got with because of his status and looks? The reality is, a lot of us men and women don't want someone who'll make us better... we want someone who'll make us feel good.
Our lust and pride will have your eyes wide open to what we want, but blind to what it's really going to cost us. There is nothing wrong with staying single until we are ready to take someone else's needs into consideration. We always have to know our limitations. So to put it simply, if our eyes do the dating, our hearts will do the suffering.
First and foremost, I say these things for myself because they are areas I can improve and work on. Secondly, why keep it to myself? Maybe someone else can benefit. Take what is for you. Don't be afraid to work on you, I have to work on me :). Keep watching my progression. ~ ♚