Love will never play by our rules, it changes the way we play. Many try to love people based on whether or not they meet the criteria. How they look, what they do, what they have. Soooo if they're not pleasing you, you can't love them? That's just selfish. That isn't love, that's an ulterior motive.
This is why we walk around with so many stereotypes and shallow conditions on who we talk to and why. The saying "Love thy neighbor" has become a thing of the past. We must show love without expecting something in return all the time. Use your strength to shoulder their weakness.
We want our circumstances to change, but we don't want to change. We want love OUR WAY but it will never be REAL our way.
Don't take this personal, it's just personal. ~ ♚