The more we seek to improve ourselves, the more clarity we gain about others. Removing the stick from our own eye clears our vision. Too many of us can't tell a man from a dog or a lady from a whore when its really as clear as night and day.
So many people walk around scared to love because of what someone else "MIGHT" be... That's such a sad way to live people. Self improvement will reveal things about others without them even telling us. First it reveals YOU to YOU, and in fixing ourselves will we then be able to receive.
Take don't this personal, it's just personal. ~ ♚